Radical Remembering: The Erotics of Birth
A tantric, trauma-aware guide to opening, receiving, and birthing through the body’s original intelligence
Birth is the only time in a woman’s life when her body is biologically designed to open completely.
Not just physically.
But hormonally.
Neurologically.
Erotically — in the original sense of Eros, the life force that opens, softens, and receives.
And yet most modern birth culture treats this opening as something to manage, control, or endure.
Radical Remembering exists to tell a different truth.
What this book is really about
This is not a promise of orgasmic birth.
It is not a technique, a performance goal, or a fantasy.
It is an exploration of birth as physiology and initiation — where safety, sensation, and surrender shape how the body opens.
Drawing on:
neurobiology and hormonal science
trauma-aware embodiment
ancestral and tantric wisdom
decades of lived experience attending births inside and outside the medical system
this guide reconnects you with the erotic intelligence already written into your body.
Not as something to chase —
but as something to remember.
Inside this guide, you’ll explore:
Why safety begins in the nervous system — and how fear, pressure, and observation shut down opening
The shared blueprint between erotic physiology and birth physiology
How hormones like oxytocin, endorphins, adrenaline, and prolactin shape labor and altered states
Why breath, sound, and movement are not coping tools — but doorways
How trauma and shame live in the body, and how opening requires consent, not force
What “orgasmic possibility” actually means physiologically (and why it’s rare, unpredictable, and never a goal)
How partners support birth through presence, protection, and restraint — not coaching
Why birth is an initiation, not an event — and how integration matters long after delivery
Each chapter includes:
somatic and embodiment practices
reflection prompts
optional variations
closing blessings to seal the work
This is a book meant to be felt, not rushed.
Radical Remembering:
The Erotics of Birth
Who this is for
This book is for:
pregnant people birthing inside, outside, or alongside the medical system
those curious about orgasmic or pleasurable birth without romanticizing it
people carrying trauma who want a body-honoring approach
partners who want to learn how to hold space, not direct
birthworkers who want to serve physiology rather than control
And for anyone who knows — deep in their bones — that birth was never meant to be purely medical.
Who this is not for
This is not for you if:
you want a guarantee or a technique to produce orgasm
you’re looking for medical advice or prescriptive instructions
you want to bypass fear, trauma, or complexity
you want to be told what to do
This work does not override the body.
It listens to it.
Why this book exists
For centuries, women were taught that birth is something to survive.
But long before birth was managed, monitored, and medicalized, women understood that opening requires safety, privacy, rhythm, and trust.
The erotic body was once sacred.
The birthing body was once revered.
This book is a reclamation of that knowing — without fantasy, without force, and without shame.
What you receive
Radical Remembering: The Erotics of Birth (digital guide)
Over 160 pages of education, embodiment, and reflection
A trauma-aware, sovereignty-centered framework
Lifetime access
This is a self-directed resource.
There are no calls, no community, and no ongoing obligations.
Radical Remembering
A return to the body’s original wisdom.
Radical Remembering: The Erotics of Birth is a trauma-aware, physiology-based guide exploring birth as an initiation shaped by safety, sensation, hormones, and nervous system regulation.
Blending science, embodiment, and sacred wisdom, this book supports pregnant people, partners, and birthworkers in reconnecting with the body’s innate capacity to open — without force, performance, or prescription.
This practical teaching and Q&A will help you apply the book’s insights to real hospital birth scenarios — including consent, time pressure, monitoring, and power dynamics — so you can navigate birth with clarity and confidence.
Not anti-hospital. Not anti-medicine.
Just the part no one teaches you.
This guide helps you walk into the hospital rooted in your voice, your rhythm, and your power — no matter what unfolds.
Because you were never meant to be managed.
You were meant to birth informed, embodied, and free.
Making pregnancy decisions without giving your power away
Staying With Yourself is a quiet, grounding guide for moments when pregnancy decisions feel heavy, pressured, or emotionally charged — and you don’t want to abandon yourself just to feel relief.
This guide is not about choosing a specific kind of birth.
It’s about learning how to stay connected to yourself when fear, urgency, or outside voices get loud.
Inside, you’ll find gentle reflections and embodied language that help you:
recognize how fear and pressure show up in your body
tell the difference between relief and clarity
pause without freezing or collapsing
stay present long enough to hear your own knowing
ask for support without handing your power away
This is not a checklist, a method, or medical advice.
It won’t tell you what to do or promise a particular outcome.
Instead, it offers orientation — a way to stay with yourself when something important is being asked of you.
You don’t need to read it in order.
You don’t need to finish it.
You can return to it whenever things feel loud, rushed, or uncertain.
Digital PDF download.
No videos. No calls. No ongoing access.
Nothing to complete.
Inside the System
Understand the Landscape. Trust Yourself. Choose Clearly.
Most people don’t feel overwhelmed in birth because they lack strength.
They feel overwhelmed because no one explained the system they’re moving through.
Inside the System is a foundational masterclass that breaks down how hospitals function, how decisions are framed, and how to stay grounded when pressure is high.
This is not about telling you what to do.
It’s about helping you see clearly so you can decide for yourself.
• Instant access
• Lifetime viewing
• Educational guidance
One pass, endless possibilities
Staying With Yourself — A Sovereignty Companion is an interactive reflection tool designed to help you regain clarity when pressure makes it hard to think. Trained on my work and approach to birth and decision-making, it slows urgency, names pressure, and helps you think with yourself again—without advice, reassurance, or being told what to do.