Radical Remembering:
The Erotics of Birth
What This Book Explores
Radical Remembering: The Erotics of Birth walks you through birth as an embodied, relational, and initiatory experience — from preparation to integration.
Inside, you’ll explore:
• why safety is the true gatekeeper of opening
• how the nervous system shapes birth moment by moment
• how trauma and shame live in the body — and how to soften without forcing
• how environment becomes medicine
• how hormones create altered states and sometimes ecstasy
• how to receive sensation rather than fight it
• how breath, sound, and movement open the body
• what orgasmic sensation in birth actually means (and doesn’t mean)
• how partners influence physiology through presence
• what happens at the threshold when the mind dissolves
• how the third stage completes the birth experience
• how birth reshapes identity — and how to integrate who you become
Each chapter includes:
• embodied teachings
• reflective journal prompts
• somatic practices
• optional tantric expansions
• closing blessings
This is a book you practice, not just read.
Who This Book Is For
This book is for you if:
• you want birth education rooted in physiology and sovereignty
• you feel called to embodied, intuitive, relational preparation
• you are planning a homebirth, birth center birth, or hospital birth
• you want trauma-aware guidance without pathology
• you want depth instead of fear-based narratives
• you want to remain intact inside intensity
• you understand that birth changes who you are
You do not need to want an “orgasmic birth.”
You only need to be open to listening to your body.
How to Begin
You don’t need to read this book in order.
It opens with:
• an Introduction
• a How to Use This Book section
• a Quick Start Guide
• Chapter One: The Origin of Opening
From there, you are invited to follow what calls you —
moving slowly, returning often, and letting the work land in your body.
Radical Remembering: The Erotics of Birth
A Tantric Guide to Opening, Receiving & Birthing Through Pleasure
Birth is not just something that happens to your body.
It is something that moves through you.
And the way you meet it matters.
Radical Erotics of Birth is a body-led, trauma-aware, physiology-rooted guide for women who know that birth is more than a medical event — but don’t want fantasy, bypassing, or performance empowerment.
This book is an invitation to return to the body’s original intelligence.
To understand how safety, sensation, pleasure, and surrender shape birth.
And to walk through birth as an initiation, not an ordeal.
This Is Not a Birth Plan
This is not a checklist.
Not a script.
Not a promise of a perfect experience.
Radical Remembering: The Erotics of Birth does not teach you how to control birth.
It teaches you how to stay inside yourself while birth unfolds — no matter how it unfolds.
This book is for women who want depth.
Who want truth rooted in physiology.
Who want reverence for the body instead of fear of it.
What “Erotic” Means Here
This book is not about sex.
Erotic, in its original meaning, comes from Eros —
the force of life, creation, expansion, and opening.
In birth, the erotic is:
• the ability to soften instead of brace
• the capacity to receive sensation instead of resist it
• the hormonal cascade that supports opening
• the trance states that arise when the body leads
• the intelligence of pleasure as medicine
The erotic is not optional in birth.
It is foundational.
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